Equality

Is there such a thing as gender equality? Now that I'm pregnant, I have become more dependent on my husband for those "manly" things that I can't do myself. For example, Grant has to get things down from tall shelves, especially heavy things, to prevent the possibility of falling. If it's over 20 pounds, he has to lift it from the trunk of my car. Picking up dog poop? It's definitely a man's job now. As is cleaning the toilet (gag).

However, along with his increasing responsibilities, I've noticed he has been dishing some of his former "female" responsibilities onto me. I've been cooking more and doing the dishes. And, I don't think he has done laundry himself since I have become pregnant. Shopping for the baby? He's definitely not interested. Decorating the baby's room? He did the paint and installed the closet organizer (after much nagging on my part)... the touch up, well, I guess that is left to me (after not being done for 2 months).

There are some things that make gender "equality" impossible (such as opening pickle jars) for many of us. Other things, I think, have gotten better. I'm very blessed to have a husband who normally does his fair share of chores, does not spend all our money on his interests, and who is supportive of my career. He is kind and respectful. I hope that all my friends find the same type of support and equal partnership in their relationships.

Grant sent me the following clip, which made me laugh and made think about the way "equality" is defined in our relationship. The clip is a lot more interesting, by the way, than my sappy post. Enjoy!